Thoughts of a Diva

Because I despise chain letters of any form but LOVE t hese types of 20 Questions/Ice Break Games, here's mine!  What's Yours? Age: 35 Birthday: February 1st  Relationship status: Perpetually Single Biggest fear: Being wrong about everything I believe to be right.  Dream Job: My Own Business #BossShit Dream Car: While Kids are still kids? Chevy Tahoe/ Once they are grown and gone? Beamer Dream House: Room for my kids to come stay, room for my creativity, bangin kitchen, banging back yard where I can both entertain and relax.  FAVORITE? Artist: T.I.  Movie: Brown Sugar.....#Man Song: I love music so that's like asking a mother to pick a favorite child. I don't even have a fave genre TV series: Currently? Can't miss Nashville Animal: Mankind Book: Man Trouble....Because I fucking wrote it! #Boom Color: Purple  THIS OR THAT? Twitter or facebook: Facebook Snapchat or Instagram: Instagram...WTF is Snapchat?  Pandora or Youtub...

So this website exists.... Like why? Why do married people cheat? I find it hard to believe that they won't get a divorce for biblical or moral reasons because aren't you cheating? In my age group it seems like for every 10 married people I know 7 of them have cheated. Why? When divorce is an option. Do you really think your mate respects you NOT divorcing them but continuing to cheat? HELL NO! I've heard from some guys that it is for financial reasons. Like "she makes more money and we've created this lifestyle" Or if I divorce her I'll have yet another child support case and my pockets can't afford it" OR "I'm staying to my kids get old enough" Old enough for what? Are children ever happy to find out their parents are divorcing? At what age do you no longer care if your parents no longer love each other? GTFOHWTBS!!!!Listen children are not stupid. They no that you and the other person don't love each other anymore. They he...

OMG...If you 'follow' my blog then you know that I have a tendency to start over, fall on my face, sulk and start over again. Welp, guess where we are now. You got it, I'm about to start over again. Or at least that's what I'm telling myself in my head. I've procrastinated ALL of 2015 so far and it's about time I put my foot in my own ass and get it together. My first post of 2015 was scheduled to be about my 2015 goals list. I've been operating all year with absolutely NO goals. What's up with that girl?  So here's my list. Most of these revolve around my health because it's been a little out of control lately. I'm also keeping in mind that 1/3 of the year is gone bye bye.  LOSE WEIGHT (doctor's orders, blood pressure problems, diabetes scare, self esteem booster - yeah ALL THAT) Publish a book. (I wrote and now I gots to sell it) Build my Simply Unique brand.  Re-Launch Diva's Connection 1 Family Vacation (just me a...