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Support? Anyone, Anyone at All?

I am a very supportive person. Mainly because I've never been a jealous person. If I have a friend who is selling something or starting some sort of new endeavor I try to always be there for them. Yet, I've found myself surrounded by people who aren't as supportive as I am. This is so very frustrating to me because the people I think should be front row and center to support me are only people who I have done things for in the past. But time and time again I find out that y friends and even some family members just aren't the supportive type.

I started a group called Diva's Connection which has three main goals: 1. Socialize (Visit our MeetUp site HERE) 2. Network (I'm a small business owner and I want to connect with other small business owners my business but also to help other women entrepreneurs grow their businesses) and 3. Mentor (a DC jr. group is coming soon). DC is 58 members strong and I know 3 of the divas personally. 1 of them I created the profile for myself and NONE of the 3 have attended any of the 25 past meetups. Really? What's the issue? This is not a hard thing to do.

I also own an online jewelry store Simply Unique which I promote mostly on Facebook. I'm over 600 friends strong on FB yet I don't think I've ever made a sale on FB. As a matter of fact I can't even get people to 'share' the link to my store with their friends. WTF is the problem? I'm so frustrated I can't even fully express it here in this post.

Anyway - what frustrations have you had in gaining the support of others in any of your endeavors?

Hmmmm. Maybe I need new friends!

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